End that chase TODAY!
I will seriously jump my guns here and tell you stop chasing with immediate effect.
Stop chasing people, moments, happiness, smiles, situations, relationships, friendships or even family.
I will tell you a very basic rule of life or universe, the more you desperately want it, the more you push it away.
I know we all have gone through our law of attraction phase and we want to believe that universe is also obsessed with us like we are but that’s not true.
People who credit law of attraction for their success and big swings are very gullible and selfless in my opinion. It takes hell amount of hard work with a side of luck to make it big anywhere. If you ask me, I will tell all you young lads, stop looking for the SECRET and start working secretly.
We all have been chasing a hot body, loving relationship or functional family situation. Guess what, more we want less we get. I am going to tell you very bluntly that nobody is coming to fix things for you or with you. Set your priorities, WORK FOR IT and don’t sideline your big goals over dead end situations. There is no substitute to hard work as my mom keeps telling me. It is indeed true, the more work you put into something, more result it shows.
Replace chasing with Consistency and courage
Stop banging your head on the walls, because it worked last year or it worked for them or this is the only way it has to be .. blah blah … NOOOO ! .
The perfect plan that we all are chasing is recipe of disaster, we may not have our PLAN A executed but have your PLAN B-Z ready?
Be resourceful for yourself and others too. People who feel lost or probably feel like that they cant LIVE without that particular PERSON.
GOOD NEWS -You will, you will live and you will happily LIVE.
I have been a chaser all my life until recently I found out that people do what they have to and ultimately they will look out for themselves. You will run barefoot behind people and they will turn around and have the audacity to yell at you that they never wanted that. Of course they never asked for it or wanted it, but first they put you on a pedestal, make you feel extremely wanted and then throw you off from the throne and expect you to be OKAY. This is some ultra level BS a lot of narcissists will put you through, trust me you are better off not chasing them or the delusion called as LOVE.
Eventually, you will realize that things & people, you have been chasing all your life were not even worth it. Every step you take closer to them, that shiny polish will wear off and you will see them for who they are. This is not just limited to romantic relationship, this is applicable almost everywhere. Friends for whom you bend backwards, will eventually just say “ You are sweet” and MOVE ON. The efforts and time you put on people and relationships should be the amount of time you are okay, wasting.
I agree, people are not business and Selena Gomez keeps yelling kill them with kindness.. I say, keep moving forward with blinders on and don’t LOOK BACK ever.
Put efforts in your work, your talents and your self growth — this is where you reap results and will be PROUD.
Have the guts for once to own your life. While everyone is finding help, you be the HELP.
