Victims of Victimization..?
We all are obsessed with Self-pity, to be top of it we sometimes even act entitled to be treated fair.
While we obliviously treat people the way we like, we always hope that we get treated PREMIUM, why?
Entitlement is a disease that could be a result of poor parenting, inferior complex turned disguised as GOD complex or simply ignorance. If you don’t know what entitlement is, let me break it to you in simple terms which I call BAUJI MODE in Hindi and other words thinking that you deserve everything good, why? because you are YOU. Now you see how useless this feature is in the human brain. We all think we are special and we are about 7.9 billion people in the world.. Need I say more?
So when something goes wrong in our life, we usually blame destiny, situation, world and sometimes just HUSBANDS but we never step back and realise that it could be us too? There are days when you should feel like GOD, but there are also days when you should know what rubbish you keep believing. No one can call you out like you, yourself.
Instead of rectifying our ways, acknowledging our errors we instead start to get into a victim mentality and think the world is treating us unfairly. Most of the time, I have seen people get stuck in self-created problems and then victimize themselves all their life.
Remember one thing, whatever choices you make in your life, these are ACTIVE CHOICES OF YOUR BRAIN. Stop billing it to people who just ate one bite of your appetizer...
Change the angle, change the perspective that’s how you expand your brain. Break old patterns of believing into whatever your monkey brain is feeding you with, challenge it and look at the situation while ZOOMING OUT one picture at a time.
Stop playing the victim you are not, take ownership and drive off your car the way YOU WANT. Stop telling people how to treat you, stop asking people for respect, let them do what they have to. You stick your ground and do what grows you. Remember response is always YOURS and that is where you keep the power.
Choose dignity, grace and silence over drama every day and any day. Make your brain a friendly place to spend your life with… don’t create false beliefs about unfair treatment and crib out how life is harsh. Remember we have alphabets from A to Z so if plan A doesn’t work, you have B-Z.
Start calling yourself out, you know you need that. Don’t be a spectator of your own life, OWN IT.
